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A Gentle Spirit

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I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
Ephesians 4:1-3 (ESV)

It seems to me that our culture isn’t as gentle as it once was.  Road rage plagues our travel.  Cable news shows pit political foes against each other, who shout at one another.  Radio talk show hosts use abrasive terms to identify the people who don’t agree with them.  Internet bloggers make a living by being insensitively critical.

What happened to gentleness?

Older statesmen often speak of days in which politicians could respectfully disagree on the floor of debate, but share a meal and enjoy each other’s company that same evening.  Older pastors speak of days in which differences of opinion could be discussed calmly and respectfully over a beer.

What happened to gentleness?

II Timothy 2:24-25a reminds us, “And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness.” 

How important it is for us to remember:

  • We can disagree without being disagreeable.
  • We can talk about issues without talking about people.
  • We can open debate without opening wounds.
  • We can defend opinions without defeating relationships.
  • We can speak the truth in love.

So where does gentleness begin?  With me.  I don’t have to return a harsh word.  I don’t have to think the worst.  I don’t have to convert disagreements into personal affronts.  Instead, I get to put the best construction on things.  I get to listen to others with patience.  I get to respect another point of view, without having to agree with it.  I get to disagree in a caring manner.  I get to love others because I am loved by Christ.

What a difference when we approach life with gentleness.

Lord Jesus, give me a spirit of gentleness that I may be Your servant.  Grant that I would have such a gentle spirit that others would truly enjoy being in my presence.  Amen.  


Don’t Doubt

Matthew 14:31 reads “Jesus immediately reached out his hand and took hold of him, saying to him, ‘O you of little faith, why did you doubt?’” It makes me think of society right now. We call ourselves a Christian nation, but we all struggle with living the Christian life. Instead, we are fearing for our lives about the COVID cases and especially about this election. As a society, we stare at our television screens, watching the news in total panic. Instead, we need to remember these words of Christ, without doubting Him. As 2 Corinthians 5:7 says, “for we walk by faith not by sight.”  Instead, of staring at the virus stats on the TV or listening to a panicking voice on the radio, we need to sit down and take a deep breath and have faith in God. Faith which says God knows what He is doing. As Christians, we are instructed to put our faith in Him. We walk in faith trusting that God knows way better than any government officials or anyone else.

At the most, someone might be here 120 years if they are extremely healthy. But God created the world and guided history. So, don’t you think He knows the world better than a 40-year-old on the news? Just as He has guided all the events of history, He will also guide and bring goodness out of the future, whatever it may hold. Therefore, let’s all just take a deep breath and pray. Even though churches were closed, we have persevered by the Lord’s grace, and will continue to in the future. Panicking might be the worst thing we can do. Panicking is a lack of self-control and it lets the Devil control you. Instead, lean upon these two verses and have faith! That is the secret to life. When things get bad or society tries to scare us, we pray the Lord would remind us to walk by faith.
Prayer: Dear Heavenly Father, Grant us peace and comfort as we progress through this year of uncertainty. Remind us that you are our ultimate fortress in whom we can take refuge and put our trust in. Lord, give us patience and wisdom to make wise decisions as a community in You. In Your precious and holy Name, Amen.


You Can Do It!

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Those whom I love, I reprove and discipline, so be zealous and repent. Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me. [Revelation 3:19-20]

You are shopping at a local store, and you notice a teenager slide something off the rack and into their pocket. This person is stealing! Kids these days, you think to yourself. You are tempted to say something to the store owner, and you are on your way up to the front as the other person heads for the exit. As they turn, you notice something horrible. IT’S MY KID!! 

“Those whom I love, I reprove and discipline,” Jesus says. Some random child you might report to the authorities, but your kid? How does that change it? I don’t know about you, but I am marching over to them and dealing with this one myself- as well as letting the store owner have a go at it. We might walk by or overlook a person we don’t know, but never our own children.

Jesus has taken a personal interest in you. Your sins are personally offensive to him. He is upset when you continue to fail. And he refuses to look the other way as you allow yourself to be defined by weakness, sinfulness, and failure. Jesus loves you! And because he does, Jesus will not allow you to continue down your destructive and harmful path. He will discipline you.

So be zealous and repent. You can do it! 

And Jesus isn’t demanding you “pick yourself up by the bootstraps.” For goodness’ sake, Jesus has told us that he is merely waiting for us to hear his voice and open the door. He wants to come in and be intimately involved in our lives. 

Jesus said these words to the church in Laodicea, which was full of lukewarm Christians, seeing no need for God in their lives. “We have everything we need! We’re doing just fine!” But after a good long look in the mirror of God’s Word, they saw they were wretched and in desperate need of rescue. They needed to change. 

You can change. You have the power of God in you. You have Jesus on your side. You know the right path. You can see where God is leading you. Repentance is a reliance on Jesus above all things, a willingness to let go of whatever might hinder you or hold you back. Repentance is ears open to cry of Jesus, “Hey! Let me in! We need to talk.” 

You can do it. Open up your heart and mind to Jesus, willing to make a change as you follow him into eternity.

Dear Jesus, we hear you. We welcome you into our lives, grateful that you care enough to call us out on our sin and carry us on our way to eternity. We seek to grow closer to you. Grow our zeal. Embolden us to change our hearts and minds, turning them solely to you. In your name we pray, AMEN.


God is Gentle

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12 For who is God, but the Lord?
    And who is a rock, except our God?—
32 the God who equipped me with strength
    and made my way blameless.
33 He made my feet like the feet of a deer
    and set me secure on the heights.
34 He trains my hands for war,
    so that my arms can bend a bow of bronze.
35 You have given me the shield of your salvation,
    and your right hand supported me,
    and your gentleness made me great.  Psalm
 18:31-35 (ESV)

King David is the author of this psalm.  He was a mighty warrior and a strategic politician.  David guided the nation of Israel against odds that were stacked against him.  But David understood that the strength, the wisdom, the fortitude, the skill he possessed was a gift from God.  In this psalm, David articulates the talents and abilities with which he has been blessed by the hand of God. 

But notice how David recognizes what is the motivation of God’s great giving.  David writes, “Your gentleness made me great.”  We don’t often equate strength with gentleness.  David understood that the Lord treated him with gentleness.  If the Lord treated David in the manner he deserved, there would have been no gentleness shown by God.  Because God is merciful, He is gentle.

We, like David, don’t really deserve the mercy of God.  Because “God is love,” He is merciful, not giving us what we deserve—punishment and hell.  He is filled with grace, giving us what we don’t deserve—forgiveness, life and salvation.

How important it is that we join David in recognizing that all we are is simply because God is gentle.  When we are lost, He rescues us.  When we sin, He forgives.  When we die, He fulfills His promise by opening to us the gates of heaven and His arms to hold us ever so gently.

Heavenly Father, thank You for Your gentle heart that provides me with the blessings of sin forgiven and life eternal.  Give me such a heart that would always be thankful.  Amen.  


For Better or Worse

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Jesus said, “Do you think that these Galileans were worse sinners than all the other Galileans, because they suffered in this way?  No, I tell you; but unless you repent, you will all likewise perish.  Or those eighteen on whom the tower in Siloam fell and killed them: do you think that they were worse offenders than all the others who lived in Jerusalem? No, I tell you; but unless you repent, you will all likewise perish.” [Luke 13:2-5]

What do you want to be when you grow up? You might remember getting asked that, and the dream that accompanied it. Astronaut, professional athlete, doctor, lawyer, business owner, farmer. Whatever it was, a dream of something better out there drives us to accomplish our goals.

But sometimes a vision of a better future isn’t enough.

Sometimes we need the scary vision of what life would be like if everything went completely wrong. What it would look like if we utterly failed.

Jesus was asked about some people who were killed while offering a sacrifice to God. How horrible! Trying to serve God and getting killed- they might have thought these people were actually wicked, and that was the only reason God would allow something like that. But Jesus clarifies for them: “Unless you repent, you too will perish.” 

Imagine, for a second, if God gave you everything you deserve. Dwell on what life would be like if God stopped helping you out and being there for you. Think about how terrible it would be if you were stranded in your sin, shipwrecked in the shattered boat of your life. Things could get pretty ugly, couldn’t they?

If you are struggling to get a vision of a better life centered in Jesus, start by getting a vision of a worse life centered in your sin. That might be enough to scare you into seeing God’s hopes and plans more clearly. 

I wonder if Jesus said, as a kid, “I want to be king!” Everyone would have thought he was silly. How can a poor boy, born to common parents, be king? But they didn’t understand what Jesus meant by King- the leader who leads by serving. The warrior who battles our enemies, instead of his own. The wise sage who teaches and guides us. Jesus is King, and he never turned from God’s best plan ever, rescuing us from ourselves, from a broken world, from the devil. 

For better, or worse, continue in the process of repentance by seeing clearly where God is leading you- or what God is trying to help you avoid. 

Heavenly Father, help us to see the many good things to which You are leading us. And give us a picture of the terrible things from which You are protecting us. We repent and seek after Your will in Jesus. In His name we pray, AMEN.